TMI… Or, A Tribute to the Over-Sharer

12 Sep

C’mon, admit it… you have one of those friends/co-workers/relatives that is constantly guilty of the infamous “Over-Share.” It’s too much information and you know it. We all have one or two or more… depending on whether or not you’re attracted to drama. Perhaps YOU are the Over-Sharer. Perhaps I am the Over-Sharer in some of my friends’ lives because I write so much…

Whoever it is, and whatever the case may be, there is one thing that has made life VERY interesting for the Over-Sharer, or the Friend-Of-The-Over-Sharer. It is this new-fangled convention we all can’t seem to live without called Facebook.

I would like to take a minute (or two) to share a few of the ways that I have observed people offering TMI on FB.

NOT KNOWING THE PROPER WHEN AND WHERE: Whether they mean to or not, they use the WALL for private invitations, downright rude or offensive opinions, love notes (at times, fairly detailed love notes… see next point) rather than the private chat or messaging features that FB has to offer.

GET A (CHAT) ROOM: Similar to the first one, this one is, however MUCH MORE SEVERE. This may be TMI on my part, but I think I may have already “witnessed”… how shall I put this delicately?… uhh… well… cyber-sex between a FB friend and someone else… I wanted so badly to interrupt their cyber-love-making with a “Get A (Chat) Room!!” comment but—since it would not have been anonymous—I didn’t have the nerve. Fortunately, someone else did… and it stopped… sort of.

SCIZOPHRENIC RELATIONSHIP-STATUS CHANGE: Let us now discuss the phenomenon that is CONSTANT (and maybe even a wee-bit compulsive) “Relationship Status” change. We all know people whose personal lives are a little, shall we say, colorful? Or perhaps you know someone whose love life is a downright train-wreck. It goes a little something like this: Cindy-Sue is in a relationship. The next day: Cindy-Sue is now single. The following morning: Cindy-Sue is in a Serious Relationship. 2 days later: Cindy-Sue is now engaged. 24 hours later: Cindy-Sue is now married. 1 week later: Cindy Sue is now single. 48 hours later: Cindy Sue is in an Open Relationship. The next morning: Cindy-Sue is now at the police station, filing a restraining order. I think you get the idea, and my apologies to anyone out there who may coincidentally be named Cindy-Sue.

FRIENDS DON’T LET FRIENDS DRINK AND POST: This one really needs no embellishment. It is pretty self-explanatory. But can I provide a little helpful suggestion? If you or your friends are still under the influence of Jack, Johnny, Jim or Jose, you miiiiight not want to post those pictures until you’ve slept it off. The “OMG-this-is-soooooooo-freakin-hilarious” photo you took in the bathroom at the bar the night before, might not be quite as funny to you (or your friends… or your mom… or your boss) in the morning light.

So here’s to all of the “Over-Sharers” out there. Thanks to them and Facebook… life is never dull and always full of surprises. And even if I claim to occasionally become annoyed with TMI… well, it’s kind of like an accident by the side of the road… I may talk about how awful it is, but then again, I just can’t seem to look away.

9 Responses to “TMI… Or, A Tribute to the Over-Sharer”

  1. College Eloquence September 12, 2011 at 9:02 AM #

    I feel the exact same way about basically everything you wrote – especially the serial relationship status changer. I see some people go from single to in a relationship like 5 times in a week. Seriously, guys? Maybe if you paid as much attention to your relationship like you do your Facebook you wouldn’t be in this mess. A relationship needs to be maintained – and I don’t mean updating your status every time you get in a tiny fight, your S.O. says something cute or 5,000 pictures of your ONE day at the beach. If people spent less time with their technology and more time with their partner I think that could eliminate a lot of issues.

    • Woman In Thrisis September 12, 2011 at 8:59 PM #

      You are probably right. I know I have had to watch the amount of time I spend at the keyboard vs. how much time I spend in my “real relationships.” Good point!

  2. JT September 12, 2011 at 9:50 AM #

    You nailed it, That’s why I spend all my time on my Blog instead of FB! That way I can over share to a much broader audience :D

    • Woman In Thrisis September 12, 2011 at 9:00 PM #

      hahaha :) Me too! I figure on FB people are kind of forced to see my “junk” but with blogging they have to WANT to read your TMI.

  3. Deb Shields September 12, 2011 at 12:55 PM #

    Maybe if those over-sharers had ONE (“I feel I can talk to you about anything” friend (not just the cyber kind) they would be so much better off.

    • Woman In Thrisis September 12, 2011 at 9:01 PM #

      You’re probably right. See, I just share my TMI with you!! ;)

  4. Tomilee September 13, 2011 at 8:14 PM #

    Loved your post! Laughed out loud at your over-sharing definitions.
    I was talking to someone in the hallway today and realized I just over-shared. Oops! And it’s just out there. Has that ever happened to you?

    • Woman In Thrisis September 13, 2011 at 8:33 PM #

      Tomilee… It’s ME! OF COURSE it has ;) I over-share every day! haha :) Hopefully yours wasn’t too serious…

  5. Jan Adams September 15, 2011 at 12:49 PM #

    Great job Joanna!! I LOVE this one too! It is totally true about the GET A (CHAT) ROOM, and TMI in general on Facebook. That is why i rarely post, and just sit back and read!

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