Form vs. Function

“OK, but if we get the shelves, are we going to actually use them to store stuff? Or will they be full of candles and picture frames and all of that decorative crap?” Lee queried in a recent discussion about living room decor.

“Well, I just want them to look nice. You see it’s not entirely about the function of a thing… the way it looks is equally important.” I stated in a somewhat desperate tone. Hoping not only to merely be understood… but to convince him that my way, was indeed, the right way.

You see, it is all a matter of form vs. function. And it is a topic that has entered probably 75% of our conversations as of late. I care about the form… The way things look, they way they feel, the mood, the tone, the overall aesthetic, etc. etc. But he, on the other hand, cares about ONE thing and one thing only. He cares about function… The way it works. And since he is a man, his thinking tends to be more black and white than my “various shades of gray” female thinking. Thus, in HIS mind… a thing either works or it doesn’t.

“… and if you do put the candles on that end table, are they going to be the candles you don’t burn but just sit there doing absolutely nothing besides ‘look pretty’?” Lee continued when the subject shifted from shelves to end tables. I couldn’t help but giggle as I wholeheartedly agreed that they WOULD be the candles which I do not burn. At last count I had around 30 of them. All sorts of different shapes, colors, shades, textures and sizes that are far too unique and look way too nice as room accents to EVER bring a match near their precious, little wicks.

“Those candles are very important decorative elements. I could never burn them. Besides, that’s what the Glade scented candles are for anyway.” I returned in my candle collection’s defense. I’m not sure when I’ll stop buying them. At the moment I have absolutely no idea where any of them actually are. Though I have a strong suspicion that they’re most likely packed away in a box or boxes labeled “FRAGILE – CANDLES.”

“… I don’t care if you want to put my favorite neck pillow and the remotes in one of your baskets (extra emphasis on the word BASKET because I also happen to have a million of those as well) … just please put them somewhere close enough for me to access them. I don’t want to have to take a taxi just to get to them.” He said as he mimed reaching down to grab a pretend remote and point it at the TV.

“Don’t worry,” I whispered in a soothing-but-sarcastic tone “no matter what I do, or where I put them… I’ll make sure you’re able to get to the remote without the use of public transportation.” And I smiled as I left the room.

Honestly? They probably WILL be in a basket or some other stylish container that I picked up at Target, Bath & Body Works, or the “Beyond” part of Bed, Bath and Beyond. And they WILL be easily accessible. But they will also look damn good while they’re sitting there.


12 thoughts on “Form vs. Function

    • You guys are ALL too funny about burning the candles! 😀 I once read those very words that Paige wrote about life being too short NOT to burn your candles. And it has stuck with me. Then I think of what becomingcliche said how they don’t make them like they used to… but then myonepreciouslife is right too… if it wasn’t their destiny, why would they have a wick!?!?

      Hmmm… perhaps this could turn into a blog post all it’s own. I’ve been wanting to use the polling feature. Now might be my chance!

      Thanks for the feedback guys. I never thought the notion of the candles would SPARK such debate… but it seems the idea may really be catching fire. (Sorry for the horrible puns. I have an unhealthy affinity for bad puns.) heehee

      Look for it in the coming days!

  1. Your house sounds like the US Congress. Come on. A little compromise is needed here! I am on the side of the candles…whatever that means. I guess it means I am not taking sides. (that is what smart mothers do)

    • Not to worry Mother, I assure you we’re compromising better than the US Congress EVER will. I’m not sure what you mean either… about being on the side of the candles. The real question presented here today is to burn or NOT to burn? THAT is the question. 😉

  2. Already picking the battles I see. Wait until you get where I am – I now have moved to candles with an on and off switch, the other half was even more confused, but at least the candles have a proper function now – ha! Good Luck – Have a Great Weekend:)

    • Tyring to Renee… pick the battles I mean. The candle-thing isn’t a battle but it is something that perplexes him and probably a lot of people… why HAVE them if you’re NOT going to BURN them? 😉 You have a great weekend as well!!

  3. JT says:

    I don’t know about candles…or remotes for that matter, But, having a woman around making the nest her own has been happening for centuries. I guess if the remote is accessible and looks damn good in the process,,,well I just don’t see a problem with that 😉

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